It is inevitable. Since most of us wants to get the best out of our lives, we couldn’t just waste any moment but live life to the fullest. Tell me, what will you do if you meet someone irresistible? Would you run away from him? Would you let him go? Of course, not! That would be a huge mistake. And me, I just realized the moment that I am naked with these young and oozing of sex appeal man. I don’t know what to do but to follow what my body is shouting for. We have done all night long.
However, few days after that, I’ve noticed some things within me. I’ve been feeling burning sensation every time I need to pee and there was also discharge. Also, I found more or less 10 sores around my labia. These can be compared to ingrown hair but I can’t popped them out. Around its white center is being surrounded by red and irritated ring.
Because of that, I hurriedly researched about it. I don’t even have the courage to tell this to my relatives and friends. So, what should I do right now? Here are some tips for you when you are dating with herpes.
It is one of the basic things I’ve learned along the way. As soon as I’ve learned that my lover have herpes, I was really upset. That was to think that he never think twice before taking me in. But because I saw his sincere apology, I choose to be happy despite of the fact. After all, I believe that everything happens for a reason. It could be just one of the biggest trial we’ve need to pass.
Never isolate yourself instead find friends who are in the same situation.
For us herpes victims, it was not about the disease itself. This is all about the shame we are going through as soon as someone know about it. Even though you are too open minded and progressive yourself, you will still end up thinking how you’ve got this. In that case, you must never let yourself be drowned on that scenario. Rather than staying within your house, go out and find someone to talk to. These are people who also have herpes. You might feel relieved when you talk them. They can give you advice on what you should do in dealing with it.
Though you already know your partner do have herpes (which he might even already passed on you), you must still keep your bar way high. This is because herpes will now become a favour or even a bargaining chip with him. They must not use this condition on not giving too much effort for your relationship. They must still prove their love for you and treat you accordingly although they have this sexual health.
Always bear in your mind that you also deserve a fulfilling and supportive relationship whatever stigma you have right now while you are dating someone with herpes.